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The Difference Between Girls and Women (Part 2)
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In “The Difference Between Girls and Women Part I“, we started with some definitive basics in the difference between women and girls.
Today I’d like to continue down the path of ripping these childish chicks a new hole in their rear ends in the hopes that they may wake up and start to appreciate their own lives.
And so too, will the men they hope to have sooner rather than later- the men and the relationships they’ve dreamed of having their entire lives. Maybe then they won’t end up lonely old spinsters who’ve never had a chance to love and live for themselves.
A girl thinks the world and man as a species will naively come around to her infantile ideas of idiocy- in remaining a girl that justifies her shitty behavior to be part of the status quo- that men crapping on women is “normal”.
A woman knows that SHIT ISN’T NORMAL AND CHANGES HER SHITTY BEHAVIOR TO GET THE MAN SHE WANTS WHO WILL TREAT HER RIGHT.
Girls think that just because their friends, the girls in Cosmopolitan magazine, and the women on prime time television shows are getting treated like yesterday’s used up steel-belted radials with more miles on them than what’s needed to make it from here to the lower side of Bangladesh, that it’s all okay- that it’s what everyone is used to because that’s how the world operates.
Then they make sweet and sour soup out of their own tears, wallow in it with their other “girl” friends who are also equally unhappy and miserable, and throw themselves a big pity party in their own self-defeating honor.
“Wow I’m so glad I am not the only one going through this and that I have friends to pick me up when I am down. Friends who are among thousands of other women out there who are going through the same thing- ending up with men who are pigs, who tear us down and treat us like shit.”
In contrast, a woman doesn’t have it in her to waste a single minute blaming men, feeling sorry for herself, or acting like an innocent victim. She goes back out there in the world, puts on her big girl pants and deals with it ALONE- no pity parties, no men bashing and no woe-is-me clubs.
And she remains UNAFRAID AND UNCONCERNED WITH WHEN THE TIME WILL COME THAT SHE’LL FIND THE MAN OF HER DREAMS. Why? BECAUSE SHE KNOWS IT WILL HAPPEN- WHEN SHE SPENDS SOME TIME FIXING HER ISSUES AND ACCEPTS THE FACT THAT THINGS ARE CONTINUALLY GOING WRONG BECAUSE SHE IS PART OF THE PROBLEM.
Girls make excuses. Women make improvements.
A girl thinks that when a guys says things to her, the words mean something and she looks upside down, underneath, and way over her head to twist his words to mean what she wants them to mean.
A woman knows WORDS MEAN JACK SHIT and they don’t spend any time pumping meaning, pseudo-clarity, and homegrown romanticized dog crap into words. They know ultimately that ACTIONS MEAN SOMETHING.
To a girl this is the common scenario:
“Like omigod, he told me I was REALLY super pretty and sexy and that he never met a girl as pretty as me. But then he said that he wasn’t sure if he could see himself in a long term relationship with me. But since he thinks I’m super sexy and pretty, I think he might like me enough to end up wanting a relationship. He also said that girls like me don’t come along everyday. OMG, what did he mean?”
A woman isn’t going to sit around analyzing, rationalizing, or emulsifying anything a man says because she has already seen and heard it all before. And she already knows that men will SAY ANYTHING TO GET WHAT THEY WANT OUT OF A WOMAN and she puts stock into what he does, NOT WHAT HE SAYS.
To a girl, his words are worth it. To a woman, his words are worthless.
A girl thinks that unskillfully using her sexuality as a tool to get a man interested is all she has going for her.
A woman knows that the last thing a woman should do to get a man interested in her is to use her sexuality “unskillfully”.
A girl thinks it’s skillful to clue any and every guy in about where she buys her drawls, what kind of stripper pole dancing videos she owns, and what kind of 6-in high heeled shoes she wears and can’t even walk in designates her a sex pot. It makes her invincible and irresistible to men and that her super sexuality will enthrall a man into falling in love.
Little does she know that most guys see her as nothing more than a skank among SCORES and SCORES of other uniform skanks out there who have the same drawls, shoes and videos. **Yawns**
A woman will skillfully HINT and allude to man about her sexuality- about what kind of woman she is behind closed doors ONLY TO A MAN SHE IS INTERESTED IN- which she knows will drive him NUTS.
She doesn’t see the need to fully advertise how she likes to get her freak on because A) She doesn’t want to attract every disgusting horny loser out there on the planet and B) A REAL WOMAN ALREADY KNOWS HOW TO OOZE JUST ENOUGH SEX APPEAL THAT THE NEED TO ADVERTISE BECOMES OBSOLETE. It’s like painting a fire engine red when it’s already red. She is already sexy by virtue of being confident, comfortable and experienced.
A girl doesn’t know how to leave anything to a man’s imagination. A woman knows how to do it just right.
A girl will take bad treatment, getting shit on, and being denigrated into top soil as being part of her job in a relationship.
A woman takes the bad treatment and the asshole shelling it out and throws him the eff out on his ass before any damage is done.
When I was younger, I took getting crapped on by men as something that I’d better get used to- that it was something I somehow deserved because I was always the one doing something wrong. That the responsibility of the man, along with my own mistakes I was constantly making wrested on my shoulders, and that I was the one to blame for getting cussed out, for being cheated on, and for being made a fool.
A woman however, has enough inside her to step back and say, “I NEED MYSELF MORE THAN I NEED A MAN. I NEED TO LOVE MYSELF MORE THAN I CAN STAND BEING TREATED LIKE SHIT.”
Girls get complacent, remain passive, and always blame themselves. A woman gets tired, gets fed up and finds the resolve to see the situation for what it really is.
A girl has a lot of growing up to do and doesn’t see it to save her own sorry life.
A woman has grown into the woman she’s always wanted to become because she’s willing to evolve and grow as a person.
Girls are often hardheaded and drowning in denial. And for anyone out there who will try and expose to them the truth (Lord help them)- the utter painful unbearable truth- that SHE IS THE CAUSE OF HER BAD RELATIONSHIPS, HER SHITTY LIFE AND HER EFFING PROBLEMS, they end up mad, resentful, and scorned with ears ablazing, and they shoot the messenger- instead of the shitty men in their lives or themselves and wake up and see things for what they really are.
A woman knows and accepts her faults, her responsibilities and knows that she is the only one who can control her life and the dynamics of her relationships. She accepts criticism and the truth and swallows them whole like an ice cream cone tainted with dirty razor blades. She takes it like a WOMAN who knows she can’t stay a stupid loser forever if she ever expects to have what she so badly wants.
In essence, girls become women because they have to- because they need to. Because life as a girl sucks beyond anything they’d ever imagined for themselves.
A girl becomes a woman when she knows she no longer has a choice.